Solutions for Marital Problems
Hope for Your Marriage
Chapter One of the Book
Help for Relationship Blockers
John Eckenwiler has appeared twice on "The Balancing Act" on the Lifetime TV Network
John talks about his book and the 3 key elements to marital success
John answer's questions from the audience the 2nd.
20 COMMON RELATIONSHIP BLOCKERS
And how this book addresses them
1. Do not act on ideas to improve things
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #3, the right spirit (assuming it’s an assignment that fits and is reasonable) – targeted in chapters 2, 11 and 12.
2. Chronic blaming
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and Spirit – targeted in chapters 1, 8 and 12.
3. Sabotage apparent progress being made
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and spirit – targeted in chapters 3, 9, 12 and 15.
4. Focus on feelings (of love, including being "in love") lost
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #2, the right love – targeted in chapters 4, 5 and 7-10.
5. One or both partners continue to be reactive, not proactive
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and spirit – targeted in chapters 1, 3, 7, 8, 13 and 14.
6. Hopelessness and discouragement have set in
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #2, the right love – targeted in chapters 1, 3, 4 and 10.
7. One partner is self-centered
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #2, the right love – targeted in chapters 2, 7 and 8.
8. One partner acts entitled in the marriage
problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #2, the right love – targeted in chapters 4, 7 and 8.
9. Personal immaturity reveals ignorance about how to be giving
A problem of Element #2, the right love and Element #3, the right spirit – targeted in chapters 7, 12 and 14.
10. Daily routines or stressors rule daily life
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #3, the right spirit – targeted in chapters 2 and 11.
11. Someone continues to exhibit controlling behaviors
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and spirit – targeted in chapters 3, 4, 7, 8, 13 and 15.
12. A stubborn or confusing power struggle
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and spirit – targeted by all chapters, but especially chapter 15.
13. Poor communication skills
A problem primarily of Element #3, the right spirit to expect oneself to use basic, simple techniques of good communication – targeted by chapters 13 and 14.
14. Issues brought forward from family of origin
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #3, the right spirit – targeted by chapters 3 and 15.
15. Putting little energy into efforts between sessions
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #3, the right spirit – targeted by chapters 1, 3, 11 and 15.
16. Trapped in one approach to marital problems
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #3, the right spirit – targeted by chapters 3, 4 and 12.
17. Conflict avoidance
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and spirit – targeted by chapters 1, 9, 12 and 14.
18. Chronic arguing at home
A problem of All Three Elements, the right character, love and spirit – targeted by chapters 1, 8, 10 and 12.
19. Values that make breakup an easy solution
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #2, the right love targeted by chapters 1, 2, 4 and 5.
20. High impulsivity and reactivity
A problem of Element #1, the right character and Element #3, the right spirit – targeted by chapters 1, 11, 13, 14 and 15.
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Shatterproof your Marriage - What Makes Couples Want to Give Up and How to Prevent it.
a book John Eckenwiler, LMFT- Licensed Marriage and Family Counselor LMFC
Approved
Supervisor, AAMFT, a Member of the Colorado Association of Marriage and Family Therapy and
The
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.
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